November 25, 2008
Losing your job does not mean you lose your ability to create, think and thrive.
Yes, the public sentiment is swarmed with emotions like anger, resentment, fear, disappointment but most of all betrayal
Probably the biggest mental roadblock we are all faced with is that historically large layoffs ocurred, it was isolated…meaning company A may not be doing well, but you could look to companies B, C and even D for what most often amounted to an even better job than the one you had.
Today’s situation is VERY different, because there is a domino effect – there are very, very few places to go and lots of real smart talented people out there fighting for those few job opportunites.
That is precisely why you need to think about your next move and use this time as a great opportunity to do that.
Here are some steps you can take to land on top while the economy is hitting the bottom.
How you can Rebound
1. If you get a pink slip, avoid doing anything drastic right off the bat – wait a few days or even weeks so you can gain some perspective on what just happened and how things are unfolding around you.
2. Remember the only thing you CAN control is YOU and how you think and behave.
3. Let go of any anger and resentment you may be feeling towards your old boss, co-workers or company because it adds no value to helping you get back on track.
4. View this volatile, remarkable situation as a gift…and opportunity to redefine yourself and career.
5. Make a list of what career paths you would like to follow….dont get bogged down on if it is possible or not…just make that list.
6. Now, go down the list and for each job, identify what the ideal characteristics are for that job. If you don’t know off the top of your head, go ask someone who has that type of job or research it on the internet. Use your head and start to think.
7. For each characteristic you put down, rank yourself 1 = weak to 6 = strong on how you add up in that area. This will give you a plan on what you need to work on to make that new career choice happen.
8. Write down the single, largest reason why you absolutely cannot purse that career. And once you have it written down, I want you to commit your time and energy to solving it.
If you get stuck and need help, respond to this post and I may be able to coach you through it.
doug
